By Samantha Haimes, Associate Director, Career Readiness
In my role here at the Toppel Career Center, I find myself
talking with students and recent grads about the job search on a daily basis.
Especially for first time job seekers, the job search process can seem very
foreign and daunting. And what else can seem pretty daunting? Between my
friends, famiy, and the occasional RomCom, I know the answer to this can
definitely be DATING. While I am no expert in the dating department, I do
consider myself savvy in the job search process (thanks, Toppel!) so I am
hoping to make some connections between these two seemingly separate ideas.
Single, married, taken... Whatever! No matter where you find yourself these
days I hope you can relate.
So many "fish in the sea"
There are sooooo many jobs out there! It might not always
seem like it (especially to those actively searching) but there really are. So
many different industries, job titles and levels, responsibilities, and to to
mention, innumerable places to live while doing these jobs. But with that, many
find themselves confused about where to begin. Just like determining who you
want to go on a date with, you need to narrow down your options in terms of a
job. You have the outdoorsy type, the movie-goer, and the animal lover;
similarly you have the job in the swanky new office, the family-run company, or
the job with high-impact responsibilities. And just like dating, you need to
weigh your options that may have all, parts of, or none of these sample
characteristics. Ultimately you just need to decide what it is you're looking
for in a significant other job!
Put yourself out there
Gone are the days where Prince Charming shows up at your
house to kiss you from your peaceful sleep and start a life with you (ok did
that ever really happen to anyone but Sleeping Beauty?!). So what does that
mean? It means you've got to get out there and find your very own Prince or
Princess Charmings of the Job Search. Putting yourself out there also means
doing more than only applying to jobs online. While this is a necessary step in
the process, if you stop there your job search will be slow and unexciting. I
found myself searching for a job a few years back in a brand new city, knowing
no one. The amount of time I spent at random coffee and lunch dates may
surprise you. I went from place to place meeting up with professionals to
conduct informational interviews, connect with alumni, and learn about the
industry and open job opportunities. It was that effort that actually landed me
my first job out of grad school. You should do the same- connect with people on
LinkedIn, reach out to alumni from UM, former supervisors/colleagues, etc. What
do you have to lose? A bad date? It's worth the risk!
The first date
We have all done it - you have a date coming up and you
suddenly have NOTHING in your closet to wear. A trip to Dadeland Mall and [too
much] money later, you have a brand new outfit that is going to make you look
your best! While it is wonderful to look
your best on a first date, it is equally, if not more important, to look that
good on your next job interview. You're probably saying, "Samantha I have
heard this a million times...next!" but I can't stress this point enough.
You want a company to remember you for everything you bring to the table, not
for what you are or are not wearing. So splurge for a nice new suit, work
appropriate shoes, and ease up on things like cologne or jewelry - less is
more.
How many days should you wait to call?
There's nothing like having a great time on a date and then
not hearing from the other person for a few weeks! You're likely on pins and
needles, checking your texts and voicemails, just in case you might have missed
them. "But whyyyyy haven't they called?!" Nine times out of ten,
active job seekers go through this exact same slew of emotions. You have this
great interview, you write a stellar thank you note, and then.... crickets.
"Did they not like me! But we had such great conversation. Maybe there is
someone else?"
Here's a little secret: the hiring process takes [far too
much] time. For many companies and organizations, there are many stakeholders
and steps in the process of bringing in a new employee. So while they may think
you are a perfect fit for their company, there maybe be external factors that
contribute to their limited (or lack of) communication. You have a few options
here:
1. Pester them constantly until they listen to you and offer
you the job.
2. Simply wait to hear from them.
3. Follow up in a professional and timely manner
If I was hiring for an open position, had 20 resumes sitting
on my desk, and three of those individuals followed up with me to check on the
status of their application and process, permitting they are qualified, I would
likely focus on those three applications first. Why? Because they seem the most
interested in the position and I want someone working for me who wants to work
at my company, not just work anywhere. So wait about two weeks after applying
for a job and then follow up with them expressing your interest and reminding
them why you're a good fit. If you've recently interviewed, ask about the
timeline and respect it. Send updates on things you've been doing and offer to
provide additional info or references if need be. It takes strong organizational skills to
follow up with every company you apply to in a professional, timely manner but
it can be a game changer. Instead of waiting for a call from your dream date
(or in this case, a job) pick up the phone and call them!
The perfect match
They say when you know, you know. Throughout this whole job
search process, you should be learning what you Iike and don't like in a job or
company. Ideally, the job that you offer and accept is an excellent match for
your knowledge, skill sets, and professional goals. Your new
"relationship" will take work and putting in time and effort to a new
job is going to give you the best experience. So get out there and start
applying!